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« Reply #34800 on: August 20, 2018, 10:40:12 »
distressed: it finally got a name those people who seem to come crossing my road just to annoy me, psychologically mindfuck and destroy me... it's called gaslightening and a tactic narcistic personalities use (either on purpose or just because they're not aware) to take away all weapons from their victims. It's been hell dealing with such persons... simply knowing it doesn't change anything actually because I'm aware something is not quite ok in her brain since quite some time due to things she's done or said... the best tric ever happened in our holidays and I'm still recovering the huge anger I felt then. Anger is THE biggest poison in our life, I see... if there is something you should avoid, lock out of your system it is that... because it can not co-occur with love and devotion... it's the most destructive power you can let yourself feel, because whether or not you destroy someone with your anger, you always destroy yourself along if not completely than partly...

happy: for having such a loving and caring husband, for having such a brigth child who's always happy, for having a life in which plenty is still possible, for having had the sessions that made me  see myself and learn to deal with my negative sides as well for knowing this is just a phase, everything passes it's just what you give attention grows.
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« Reply #34801 on: August 26, 2018, 04:04:45 »
distressed: it finally got a name those people who seem to come crossing my road just to annoy me, psychologically mindfuck and destroy me... it's called gaslightening and a tactic narcistic personalities use (either on purpose or just because they're not aware) to take away all weapons from their victims. It's been hell dealing with such persons... simply knowing it doesn't change anything actually because I'm aware something is not quite ok in her brain since quite some time due to things she's done or said... the best tric ever happened in our holidays and I'm still recovering the huge anger I felt then. Anger is THE biggest poison in our life, I see... if there is something you should avoid, lock out of your system it is that... because it can not co-occur with love and devotion... it's the most destructive power you can let yourself feel, because whether or not you destroy someone with your anger, you always destroy yourself along if not completely than partly...

happy: for having such a loving and caring husband, for having such a brigth child who's always happy, for having a life in which plenty is still possible, for having had the sessions that made me  see myself and learn to deal with my negative sides as well for knowing this is just a phase, everything passes it's just what you give attention grows.


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« Reply #34802 on: August 26, 2018, 04:08:22 »
Happy: my new nickname at work is "Lacrimosa"
Happy 2: I found more Lacrimosa fans at work <3
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« Reply #34803 on: September 05, 2018, 18:46:41 »
Happy: Got married, had a nice honeymoon (and saw Rajel!!!) and there's a little child here growing everyday.
What else could I desire more?
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« Reply #34804 on: September 10, 2018, 18:52:42 »
Happy: one more travel is already in sight. Looking frward to see a city I've never been to, and to meet a very good friend there. Isn't it something to look forward to!

Misrable: I don't like autumn, I don't like when it's getting colder...