XD It's a mind-boggling conversation we're having here. And even if I understand your fear for getting ilusions, specially on love, I think sometimes illusions, like dreams, are important. Somewhat to what Morgentau said, even if it seems impossible to reach, or if it seems unreal, it can give you the courage or power to create something real out of it. For example, the love you feel for Lacrimosa. What if there really wasn't any love behind Lacrimosa, or any powerful force creating things in specific order or plans (like Tilo creating his music), what if that wasn't there and Lacrimosa was really shallow... you still found love through it. You still abstracted an emotion or feeling from the music whether it had that love for you there, or not. Do you understand what I say? Is just that your comment or question of whether you should feel love for Lacrimosa if Tilo didn't wanted you to feel that, troubles me. Maybe I understood wrong. But I think that's a really personal decision. I don't think it depends on another person if you should enjoy something or not, if you can find something beautiful or not. But that's only me.
"it's true we can love in many ways, too many ways perhaps and everbody will feel it differently, but one thing is sure we should never stop following our nature..."
Our nature... it's funny cause it makes me think, what really is our nature? Sometimes we found dreadful things in this world, in our behavior, and always try to change it, but keep finding it through history of human kind. Our nature must be however we've been behaving all these centuries. I still wonder how it really is...
But that's off the point, and it seems so pesimistic, you can ignore it if you want. :/